238. Benefits of Finding Common Ground in People

I got invited to a birthday brunch today. Before such event I get a little nervous, not knowing what to expect, but then I re-mind myself I’ve been in these situations before and actually enjoy chatting and getting along with other people, and with that trust I calm down. There was one women I wasContinue reading “238. Benefits of Finding Common Ground in People”

237. What is the Solution to Inequality Between Teachers?

One of the observations I’ve made at my new job was that I am now able to sit-in at teacher‘s meetings and be able to talk about the students I am working with, and find ways to improve as a teacher with the other teachers. Since I am a teacher’s assistant, I first had theContinue reading “237. What is the Solution to Inequality Between Teachers?”

235. Got Money Problems in Your Relationship?

Today my partner and I went shopping for pillows and pillowcases. We found our pillows and then found a really soft, silky pillowcase that we really liked and wanted to get. We saw that the only way to purchase the pillowcase was to get it through as package which included the bed sheet too. However,Continue reading “235. Got Money Problems in Your Relationship?”

234. What is Guaranteed in Life?

What is guaranteed in life? The last few weeks my partner and I’ve gone through some situations where we had to question this. At my partner’s work there was a huge change to the system and how things run there, and that recently hired workers who signed their contracts and had faith that they willContinue reading “234. What is Guaranteed in Life?”

232. Opening Up Jealousy – Part 2 – Wants & Desires

 Continuing from:231. Opening Up Jealousy – Part 1 ”So how to stop nature of competition is to let go of primary self interest of wants, needs, desires and how you would manipulate your world and reality through and as jealousy.” –The Origin and Nature of Jealousy I forgive myself that I have accepted and allowedContinue reading “232. Opening Up Jealousy – Part 2 – Wants & Desires”

230. Insights about Alzheimer’s

I watched the movie Still Alice in preparation for my participation in the Desteni Movie Night Hangout with Joana and Marlen. One of the first points that came up for me while watching the movie was what would I do if I knew I have early-onset Alzheimers?  If I knew I had limited time toContinue reading “230. Insights about Alzheimer’s”

229. Generalizing Cultural Groups

In this 8 minute talk I share a realization I had about generalizing cultural groups and how the starting point of my words can have an influence on the outcome of my interactions with people. Follow me on Sound Cloud! Educational & Supportive Websites:Journey to Life Blogs:     Personal Journeys of Self-DiscoverySelf & Living: SolutionsContinue reading “229. Generalizing Cultural Groups”

228. My Relationship with Alcohol – Part 1

I’ve been receiving invitations to events where it is encouraged to drink alcohol with people. Like for example being invited to a travel company party held at a local bar.  One insecurity is the fear people are going to judge me as strange for not drinking with them and this will prevent me from gettingContinue reading “228. My Relationship with Alcohol – Part 1”

227. Expressing and Standing in my Words

Continuation from:Day 224: To become a Leader… Day 225: Fear of Being Disliked Day 226: Who am I if I Just Want to Please Others? I forgive myself that I have accepted and allowed myself to be so afraid about expressing myself and who I am really in front of others because I am afraid toContinue reading “227. Expressing and Standing in my Words”

226. Who Am I if I Just Want to Please Others?

Continuing from:Day 224: To become a Leader…Day 225: Fear of Being Disliked I read through my previous blog and saw how easily I have connected talking to women to wanting to become friends with them, and giving value into that point, like when I talk to other women around my age or those I connectContinue reading “226. Who Am I if I Just Want to Please Others?”