Redefining “…forgive them, for they do not know what they are doing.” – 320

fadi-xd-799659-unsplashJesus said, “…forgive them, for they do not know what they are doing.”

I have stumbled upon this quote over the last couple of months, both within my DIP buddy chats, and Desteni community chats. But for some reason I couldn’t get it, and I couldn’t see why I should forgive people when they do not know what they are doing.

A part of me was stuck with the word ”know.” Usually, people know to an extent what they are doing, ie: they know they are hitting someone, or speaking hurtful words to someone – they must know to an extent what they are doing is not cool, but where do we forgive them within all of that?

I had to actually redefine the entire sentence for me to truly get it. I redefined the sentence to being: to forgive people for their mistakes/wrongdoings because they are not or weren’t aware of the consequences and impact of their actions/words/presence towards themselves and others.

So by bringing the word ”aware” into the sentence (by replacing ”know” with aware), for me the sentence makes sense, and much easier for me to practice forgiveness. It’s because they are not/were not aware of how they may have hurt me and how that actually hurts them too (by adding consequence to their life and beingness process) because they did not/do not have the skills, and proper education to be aware of themselves and the impact their words/behaviors/actions have on people in the long-run.

So this, to me, is more clear now after working from the original sentence, and I feel much better about it.

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Day 201: The Word Relax – Part 3

Continuation from:
The word Relax
The Word Relax – Part 2

I am walking a word redefinition where I am clearing all the memories, thoughts, emotions and feelings towards a word so as to lift the veil from how I saw the word with my own limited view, then see what the world actually is in this world system and then walk a redefinition process where I see how I can live this world as an expression of myself

My current definition of relax is more of an idea or a picture of me completely letting every single tension and tightness within my body go and no longer allowing oneself to go into that point again, and within that I picture me as ‘relaxed’ walking or floating around aimlessly through life smiling, feeling ‘free’ however I can’t take care of myself or work in this world cause I am ‘too relaxed’ – I am not prepared or ready enough to do my work, I have let go of all the worries, concerns and tensions within me. LOL this is definitely an idea I have that I know does not align with reality, so I will walk self-forgiveness in releasing these ideas.

I forgive myself that I have accepted and allowed myself to connect the word RELAX to the idea that I completely let go of every tension and tightness in my body to the extent where I become listless, ethereal, floating and thus existing aimlessly in life in this experience of bliss

I forgive myself that I have accepted and allowed myself to define the word RELAX to the idea that I would be in constant bliss to the point where I am not around of my surroundings instead of realizing this is an idea I got from a movie where people were smoking pot and relaxing on the floor, were smiling and happy and from there I gathered/concluded that’s what being absolutely relaxed is

I forgive myself that I have accepted and allowed myself to connect being relaxed to smoking pot through believing one can only relax if you smoke a joint instead of realizing this is an idea I created in the mind from an assumption that to be relaxed, in fact one can only get there to smoke point instead of realizing that one can become relaxed as a living expression without any chemicals/drugs

I forgive myself that I have accepted and allowed myself to fear being so relaxed I become unaware of myself and my environment instead of realizing that would only be so if I were to take drugs, ingest chemicals, or allow myself to create such an experience within because I realize to be relaxed as a living expression within oneness and equality as what is best for all, one is always aware of oneself

I commit myself to let go of the ideas and associations that to be relaxed one has to smoke pot and assist and support myself to find out how to be relaxed as a physical expression of myself

I will continue with this redefinition word process in the next blog…thanks for reading!

Day 200: Walking a Point into Completion?

Today I listened to the EQAFE interview What is Self Awareness and one thing I realized was how I have the tendency to not bring points into completion. This can be seen in my blogs where I will start with a point and then the next day work on another point, and the first point thus gets left on the “back burner” and I cycle into this pattern and then resist going back to working on the old points. I understand that walking one point at a time into completion and correction allows self to receive the gifts of new insights and realizations of self-awareness that come within walking the specific process.

I forgive myself that I have accepted and allowed myself to resist walking a point into completion because I have never really, truly, self-honestly done it before

I commit myself to pick one point and align my time and schedule to walking the point within a consistent manner so I develop consistency and also assist myself to practice walking points into absolute completion

I forgive myself that I have accepted and allowed myself to exist within the behavior of writing and focusing on one point, and the the next day walking a different point and from this, pushing the first point behind instead of bringing each point through into completion through my blog because I realize if I do not follow through on my points anger and irritation build up within me because I know self-honestly I am not sticking to one point and this only fuels/supports laziness within me. I realize it takes real dedication, “hard work” as effort, focus and discipline to be able to walk through a point into its completion, and from this I understand that gifts of self-awareness and realization will emerge the more I continue walking points through and within dedication

I commit myself to use myself as cross-reference to see whether I am pulling a point through enough by checking with myself self-honestly because I realize if I do not follow through on a point anger and irritation build up cause I know I’m not changing enough/as effectively, so I assist and support myself to align within walking each point to the best of my ability

I forgive myself that I have accepted and allowed laziness and apathy to override the motivation to pull a point through by walking all the steps and dimensions required because of the resistance attached to the fact/reality that it’s going to take a while and require a lot of time and effort on my part to pull a point through into completion and from this, I forgive myself that I have not accepted and allowed myself to push myself through the resistance when I face the fact/reality that I need to add more, investigate more, go deeper more in a point since I realize it takes time, effort and patience

I realize it is not something one can do within a certain expected time because I realize each point is unique and has it’s own energy and time-frame, thus I take and “treat” each point as the uniqueness it is and walk with no expectations about it, walking this point for me within the realization and starting point that walking this point will allow me to learn more about myself and empower myself to take control of my life and change myself from an energetic-consciousness-fueled robot to a self-aware being. I also realize gifts of insights and realizations come through the more I push through the resistances towards walking through a point to its utmost completion

I commit myself to push through any resistance I face towards finishing/completing a point by reminding myself that I am exactly where I need to be and through pushing through the resistance I will uncover more dimensions and gifts of insight that will assist me in actually getting the point done and from this I commit to live realizations that come through and redefine myself/who I am as I walk each point in its completion

Okay, I will stop here for today. I will continue with the point I recently left off with (redefining the word RELAX) for the next blog post…thanks for reading.

Day 189: Redefining The Word Consistent

Self-Forgiveness:

I forgive myself that I have accepted and allowed myself to believe I can never be equal or capable of being consistent within application of walking my process.

I forgive myself that I have accepted and allowed myself to lack “faith” or certainty within myself in relation to being able to walk my process consistently

I forgive myself that I have accepted and allowed myself to define me as being inconsistent and thus being consistent is going to be impossible because I am already ‘inconsistent’ instead of realizing that I am able to change myself into becoming consistent

I forgive myself that I have accepted and allowed myself to accept another’s words of me being “inconsistent” as absolute, as “who I am” not realizing they were making a comment on how I structured and walked through my work – that how I was doing it was inconsistent, thus, wasn’t toward me as a being but how I walked through certain points of work, and from this, I forgive myself that I have accepted and allowed myself to take another’s words of needing to be “more consistent” with my work personally by believing/thinking that I must be consistent because who I am currently is “inconsistent”

I forgive myself that I have accepted and allowed myself to accept information from an astrology book that said I am inconsistent because “I am a Virgo” and did not ever acknowledge or look to see within me to question this point/information of myself so I can realize I don’t have to define myself according to what a book/information says

I forgive myself that I have accepted and allowed myself to feel comforted with a positive energy experience within me when someone told me I need to be more consistent because I immediately blamed me being inconsistent according to my astrological sign as the reason why I am the way I am – that my inconsistency was a result of my sign, not me instead of realizing how I had been using my sign as a backdoor not to take responsibility for my process and walk my process consistently on a moment to moment basis

I forgive myself that I have accepted and allowed myself to doubt applying consistently in my process because I fear messing up instead of realizing that to become consistent I must practice, learn, not be too hard on myself, and not expect myself to be somewhere or at some level of consistency within my process because what is supportive for me is to apply corrective application and/or give direction to me when I see me participating in my mind every time and thus if there is a problem and I find myself not applying myself within/as consistently self-honestly I go back to the drawing board to see where I need to support myself more, what do I need to change, understand and/or work on more

After walking my Self-Forgiveness, the way I see consistency in relation to walking my process is that in every moment of breath, every moment I am aware I apply myself into and as self-change. I understand that doing and becoming absolutely consistent will become real when I walk my process as consistently as I self-honestly can in a way where every time I see me within my mind I apply immediate correction until I eventually accumulate these corrections to a point where I am aware of myself every moment of breath, equal and one with the physical, directing myself when I see it’s necessary/best for all

Sounding of the word:

can-assist-to-see

can-a-syst

con-a-system

How I see walking process consistently is that the more I walk in a way where I immediately apply corrective application or give direction for myself when I see me in my mind, I will in time, begin to stop the systems within me that drive/influence me without my directive principle. This includes the backchats, emotions, energetic attachments to memories…these points within my mind where I am not in control of, I take control of by stopping my participation, applying practical self-commitments/corrective-statements to change in every moment I see me in my mind/am aware of my participation in the mind. So, basically when I see me in my mind I immediately apply self-commitments or give myself direction that will ensure I correct what I just did.

Dictionary definition:
con·sist·en·cy

noun, plural con·sist·en·cies.

1. a degree of density, firmness, viscosity, etc.: The liquid has the consistency of cream.

2. steadfast adherence to the same principles, course, form, etc.: There is consistency in his pattern ofbehavior.

3. agreement, harmony, or compatibility, especially correspondence or uniformity among the parts of acomplex thing: consistency of colors throughout the house.

Being consistent within walking process is also like being steadfast in one’s application, sticking to the principle of what is best for all/self in every moment of breath or of which I am aware of myself and my participation within my mind. So to be consistent, I apply correction for myself everytime I see me in my mind as this is me sticking, living and applying the principle of what is best for all.

New Word Definition of the Word Consistent:

To be consistent is immediately applying the tools of self-support and self-correction when I see me participating in my mind.

How to Practically Apply Consistently within my Process:

When I see myself participating in my mind, I immediately apply corrective application. The correction is what I see best or most supportive for me in that moment which can be one, some or all of the following: breathing, focusing on the physical/what’s here, forgiving myself of the energy attached to what I’m participating in, self-investigation of the point I am participating in within the mind and then self-correction, applying/walking the tools of writing, self-forgiveness and self-corrective application.

Example:

When I see myself experiencing an EMOTION or FEELING, I immediately stop, breathe, forgive myself of the emotion and look to see where this is coming from. From there, I walk to see where I can go with this/what direction should I take with this point so I can understand it, find direction on how to change and no longer have the emotion/feeling direct me because I realize emotions and feelings are energies that come from the MIND, not me

When and as I see myself go into imagination about something or someone, I immediately stop, breathe and identify the energy behind the imagination. I then walk self-forgiveness on the energy to find where it is coming from/what triggered it. Then I find direction/correction for me so I can take responsibility for this point so I don’t participate in this imagination again because I realize if I participate in imagination I am being distracted from what really matters, which is what is going on here in this physical reality

When I see myself participating in backchat, I immediately stop, breathe and forgive myself as that backchat. I look to find the nature behind it to understand where it is coming from and why it exists and direct myself for correction so I do not participate in such backchat again

When I see myself participate in thoughts or memories of the past, I immediately stop, I breathe and identify the energy behind the thought. I then walk self-forgiveness on the energy-thought connection and from there, see where it takes me, what can I learn from it and according direct myself to what I see would support me most.

Note: If I am at work I may not be able to apply these points since I will be busy but what I will do is make note of them and see how I can best direct myself in the moment. Again, will test and see what I can do here.

I understand this will be a learning process. I don’t want to beat myself up or hold expectations of myself if I miss a moment or two, where I am not yet living/being the word “consistent” on an absolute level because I realize to be absolutely consistent is going to take time, but also constant application and correction when I see myself in the mind. So if I do miss that moment or two I continue to walk, learn from what I missed, be more aware of myself and my participation in the mind, correcting and directing myself when I self-honestly can.

I will report back on how I have been applying this word within the next week. Thanks for reading.

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Day 187: The Word: SELF

Continuing from:
Seperating myself from…myself

Part 1 of Investigation of the word Self-Commitment

Let me first look at the word SELF:

I forgive myself that I have accepted and allowed myself to separate myself from the word SELF through defining SELF in separation of myself instead of realizing SELF is ME as who I am currently existing right here, right now. I see, realize and understand that SELF is me as beingness as life-potential. I see, realize and understand that SELF is who I am and what I’m currently existing/living as right here and right now.

Sounding:

Sell-f, Shelf, Cell, I am one cell within a body (the universe) I am a part/cell of the whole/body and therefore I am not alone, I am an integral part of the whole/body because I am a part of it, I come from it and I can’t leave it

Dictionary Definition:

self

noun, plural selves.

1.a person or thing referred to with respect to complete individuality: one’s own self.

2.a person’s nature, character, etc.: his better self.

3.personal interest.

Okay, so ‘complete individuality’ I can see in relation the the word SELF. I see SELF as ME and I also see SELF as a part of the WHOLE. SELF as a cell in a body, it is a part of the body and is there to exist/do its part. So within SELF there is responsibility as well since SELF as CELL has its part/job to do in the body which means I have a part/job in this world, I am am integral point to its existence and I have the responsibility to support the whole/body and do my part because I come from it, it is a part of me/I am a part of it. I also see the part of individuality that I have a unique expression that is ME as SELF as WHO I AM as BEINGNESS as LIFE-POTENTIAL. Each individual/being in this existence has their own expression that is unique and individualized and we all come from the same source/body/whole yet individual/unique.

New Definition:

Self is ME as WHO I AM currently existing here in this moment

Practical Application:

Within SELF-honesty I look within to see who I am and what I’m currently existing and assess whether what I’m existing as/accepting and allowing is best for all or requires correction/change

Within SELF-Forgiveness I take responsibility for what I see I am currently existing that is not Best for All and from that, set forth direction to change

Within SELF-Writing, the writing is focused on me and what I’m currently existing as within what I see requires to be changed

Within SELF-Corrective Application I walk ME as who/how I currently exist as into change as correction, correcting me and/or training me into becoming/living in a way most supportive for me, as SELF as a part of the WHOLE/BODY of the universe

This is a work in progress. As I walk my process more dimensions/points about who I am as SELF/the word SELF will open up

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Day 128: Re-Defining the word "Harsh" Part 1

Continuing from: Day 127: Investigating the word “Harsh” 

Support on what I am walking today: 

from Earth’s Journey to Life Redefining Words: Gathering Information

Harsh.
I have, when speaking the word harsh would use it in context to judge something. For example, the saying “that’s harsh” I am implying that what I see as harsh I am judging, specifically in a sense of judging something or someone for an action that was done as if I have a right to judge that something or someone. In a sense I am also blaming that something or someone in separation of myself for what they did. Within that, I would see myself as superior to and better than which I am judging/seeing/defining as harsh, so I am within the polarity of superiority and inferiority.

I had a friend who would also say something similar “that’s harsh” but make fun of it in a way, and I would react in anger towards her for acting like that, judging and acting arrogant. My friendship with her was quite abusive, but that’s another point to write about later. I don’t recall ever saying to someone directly that they’re harsh.

To imagine being said I’m harsh I react in fear because I believe/find/see that word as something bad, that if I am harsh that is a bad thing, like that’s something you shouldn’t be at all. It goes against an idea I have of who I am, self-definitions and beliefs of myself of trying to be/look like this good person lol. It’s interesting when I am the one saying the word harsh I feel powerful, superior, like I have a right to say whatever I want, better than all, but when I am the receiver of the word I react in fear.

Harsh – I even connect to punishment. To me the word harsh is connected to severe punishment, with lots of pain and agony. I also connect this to whipping, like in the history of America with slavery and the white men as masters whipping black slaves – I must have seen this in a movie since I have a picture of it in my head. That’s harsh” I define it so. The word to me is negatively charged and something I experience fear towards.

I will continue with this point tomorrow by walking the next step in re-defining the word “Harsh”…

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Day 127: Investigating the word "Harsh"

I see myself as being harsh on me and I would like to be gentle with myself instead.

First I will walk the word harsh, how I see the word, what comes up when I speak the word, why I justify within myself that it’s okay/acceptable to be harsh with myself, forgive myself from existing as this word and re-define it for myself.

How I see the word harsh:

This is one word that I experience within myself – being harsh, strict, severe within me. I have lived the word harsh by being harsh with my body –putting it on diets, gaining and losing weight within a very short time frame, so who knows what kind of consequences I may have created from that.

I have also lived this word by judging myself and the thoughts that come up, the backchat that comes up and instead of directing myself in breath and/or through writing and forgiveness, would judge and become harsh within myself. I also see being harsh on self connected to self-hate – both of which I experience negative experiences toward.

This is a short blog tonight, but I will definitely continue with this point tomorrow.

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