Day 222: Working Together

I took the initiative to start up a Facebook group for women living in the (foreign) country I live in as a way for other women to ask questions, get answers, network, and share services/works with other women. I did this because I had a few ”women” questions that I was not comfortable asking in public Fbook groups so I decided to open up my own group, a ”safe, closed group” so to speak where women can assist other women with problems/questions in the specific city they are living in.

I offered my invitation to a Fbook Women’s Association group (where they are also located in the same city as me) to join in. Then, a few of these women started to advertise/promote their group in the Fbook group I created. They wrote about how all the women’s questions living in a foreign country can be answered in their group. From there, I felt like it was getting competitive, like they wanted to take away the women in MY group, and it got to the point where I wanted to start blocking these women, until I realized, hey wait, I’m in reaction, and I know that I create consequences when I’m in reaction, so let’s stop, breathe and see maybe I can work something out with these ladies.

So I reached out, and I messaged one of the women and told them that I can help their group by placing a document in the files section of my Fbook Women’s group with their information, so, if they see that another can benefit from looking into their group, they can point the person to the document. Then from that I started adding other resources and information that women may want to look up if they need additional assistance. Because then I realized, this is not just MY group, it’s a group for women to gain and share information and resources with each other to make living in a foreign country a little easier. This was my original intent of creating the group in the first place, though reactions had to get in the way and I made things personal for a moment.

Anyways, my idea worked out well, and it turned out that the women contact me in need of assistance with their website (because in their group women pay for membership), and they asked me if I could assist, so just today I met one of the women, got to find out more about her and where she comes from and from there, was gifted volunteer opportunities in the group which will assist me in networking with others (in hopes to find a job) and expand my skills.

Thus, the point I’d like to share is that working WITH others is so much more beneficial than working against others, because you may never know what will open up.







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Day 162: My Friend’s Unexpected Car Accident

OWNLOAD

Unexpected. I read on facebook a friend of mine got into a car accident but she was okay. This was unexpected and I reacted in fear towards this.

Self Forgiveness:

I forgive myself that I have accepted and allowed myself to react in fear about my friend getting into a car accident.

I forgive myself that I have accepted and allowed myself to react in fear towards my friend getting into a car accident because it was unexpected.

I forgive myself that I have accepted and allowed myself to react in fear when things unexpectadly happen instead of taking the moment as is and doing what I can in the moment to assist/support me/others.

I forgive myself that I have accepted and allowed myself to think “anything can happen” in fear.

I forgive myself that I have accepted and allowed myself to react in fear to the saying/expression “anything can happen.”

I forgive myself that I have accepted and alowed myself to fear getting in a car accident like my friend.

I forgive myself that I have accepted and allowed myself to project being my friend and how I would feel if I were her.

I forgive myself that I have not accepted and allowed myself to realize my friend is in her own process and whatever happens to her is because of her process, and therefore I cannot put myself in her shoes and imagine what she must have gone through because I am not in her body, I am not her.

I forgive myself that I have accepted and allowed myself to react in fear as if I was my friend in the accident by imagining what it must have been like.

I forgive myself that I have accepted and allowed myself to react in fear to the unpredictability of life and changes in life.

I forgive myself that I have accepted and allowed myself to react in fear towards the unpredictability of life because I don’t know what to expect to happen.

I forgive myself that I have accepted and allowed myself to create a fear reaction towards not knowing what to expect/not knowing what will happen next.

To be continued…

https://eqafe.com/p/car-crash-fears-phobias 
Where does the fear of being in a car accident come from?
How does the Mind create a relationship between the emotional energy of fear and car accidents in the Mind that produces the fear of car accidents?
Where does one start one’s process with releasing oneself from the emotional energy of fear in relation to car accidents?
How will one use the principle of ‘constructive separation’ to walk this process of releasing oneself from the emotional energy of fear?

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